I was 24 when I realised I was a high maintenance friend. It was one of those equally surprising and disheartening moments when you have a random epiphany - or as my business partner calls them "ah ha!" moments. For many years I've been comfortable with admiting it's hard for me to find friends. It was evident as early kindergarten for me and my family that I wasn't going to get my stock-standard best friend (that didn't stop me spending two decades trying and failing to find